You’ve probably heard about and maybe even practiced the “Law of Attraction” to bring better things into your life.
It’s one of our brain’s most natural and powerful talents. Countless people all over the world have used this “law” to attract wealth and abundance to themselves and the people they love.
So why have so many more tried and failed?
The #1 question we ask when it fails to work for us is…
“If Attraction is actually a ‘law,’ then why won’t it work for me as automatically and effortlessly as gravity does? Why would you have to do anything to make it work?”
Well, the truth is that just like gravity, the Law of Attraction IS always working. You don’t need to do anything to make it “work”…
You just have to do something if you want to harness it and make it work for you.
It took Isaac Newton and an apple falling off a tree to make us “aware” of gravity, and look at it with awareness and intent. And then it still took a few hundred years until we figured out how to fly.
Well, the Law of Attraction is similar. All along, it’s been a force in your life.
So why do so many people struggle to attract money?
Struggle to bring abundance and happiness into their lives, when the Law of Attraction is all around them?
The fact is, if the Law of Attraction works all the time, and your own results fall short… then the difference must be in you.
If you state an intention, and it doesn’t work, there’s a part of you that’s fighting with another part of yourself.
Have you heard the saying that we only use a small fraction of our brains?
Well, 80 to 90 percent of our thinking is unconscious.
We are like conscious icebergs with most of our thoughts happening beneath the water line, out of our awareness.
What this means is that what you consciously think isn’t anywhere near as important as what your unconscious mind thinks.
So when your intentions fail to manifest, all too often it’s because there’s an unconscious conflict of beliefs deep down. A conflict that may have been buried there since childhood.
Some experts call these “counter-intentions,” and until you get “clear” of these hidden mental snags attracting the things you want in life is going to be very difficult.
It’s like trying to drive a car with one foot flooring the gas and the other foot pumping the brake pedal.
However, when you discover the simple process of eliminating this blocked thinking from your mind, it’s as if the flood gates are flung wide open and all the abundance you’ve been concentrating on and waiting for is suddenly “cleared for landing”.
See exactly how it works in this just released video that explains the new research and how people are now using the Law of Attraction more powerfully than ever before.
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Your Mindset and The Keys To Business Success
“Success is the Progressive Realization of a Worthy Ideal” Earl Nightingale
Where Does Success Begin?
Success begins with you and your mindset. The words in your thoughts create the belief system which governs your actions. Thoughts also affect your attitude; by being positive, you are prepared to face the challenges that lay before you. This builds your confidence and willpower to solve issues. So true is the statement: “All the So-Called “Secrets of Success” Will Not Work Unless You Do”.
Seek Out Successful Coaches and Friends:
One of the best ways to become successful is to associate with successful people. Find like minded people in your business who have already succeeded. Use them as coaches and mentors. Become friends with them and ask their guidance. They are a wealth of knowledge and there is no need to reinvent the wheel.
They know what works and what doesn’t work. Their input can save you time and money and both are key to your success. Surround yourself with Believers and Thinkers, but most importantly, surround yourself with those who see the great potential in you.
Keep in mind that you may have to go through failures to reach success. Look at Failure as an opportunity to begin again, only next time more wisely!!!
Do Your Research:
This is so important: “Follow Your Passion, and Success Will Follow You”. You really have to want it! Then do the research to be sure there is an adequate need to fill, service to provide or problem to solve. Next, find a solution to the problem, need or service. Once you have the solution, then sell it to your prospective customer at a profitable price.
I know that this sounds so simplistic, but you need to get it right. That is why coaches and mentors are so important. Use them, as well as the services of the Small Business Administration and local Chamber of Commerce. Do your due diligence. Know what it is going to take before you invest. Be open minded and willing to learn.
Be Willing To Sacrifice:
You will have to give up time and money. It takes time to become successful. Success is not handed to you; it is earned. There will be many long days and hours dedicated to achieving your goal. “The Bad News – Time Flies, The Good News – You’re the Pilot”
Success in business takes money, a financial investment. You will have to use your own money or borrow. This is why your research is so important. You need to know that your efforts will be able to repay the investment and then pay you a profit. Always remember that, “Opportunities Don’t Come with their Values Stamped on Them” and that “An Idea can be Life Altering. All you Need for an Opportunity is just another Good Idea”.
Be Willing To Ask For Help and Delegate:
Successful persons did not become successful by themselves; they had help. They knew where to find advice and they went and asked for it. To be successful in business you have to be able to grow and learn. Remember this statement: The tasks, responsibilities and legal requirements of a business are too much for one person to handle.
Be willing to delegate tasks to others. You will need legal advice, accounting services and day to day operational requirements. You have to delegate and entrust some aspects of your business to others. There is simply too much for one person to do.
Be Willing to Network:
Another key factor in a successful business is networking, the meeting of prospective suppliers and customers. Professional trade shows and your local Chamber of Commerce are an excellent source for networking. You can find a wealth of knowledge, new ideas and old reliable know hows.
Keep this in mind, “Don’t Allow The Noise of Others Opinions to Drown Out Your Own Inner Voice”. Go to these events with an open mind and a willingness to share. The seeds that you plant at these places may come to fruition in the future.
Be Willing To Learn:
You do not know it all. The best way to show an individual that you are willing and wanting to learn is by asking questions. Show an interest in them and what they know. Engage them by admitting your shortcomings and asking for their advice. Remember that, “In Order for there to be Complete Communication, You must Listen.”
Once you have finished speaking with them, remember to ask them what you can do for them. By asking this, you open the door for more engagement and thus more opportunities to learn. Remember the saying, “A Mind is Like a Parachute, It Works Best When Open, Be Open Minded”.
Be Willing to Give:
Giving is so often overlooked but is so essential to success. Keep in mind that you should always “Make Going the Extra Mile a Habit; It Makes You Successful & Lifts You Above the Crowd”. You should also give back to the community through your Chamber of Commerce, events and sponsorship’s.
Give to your customers by providing extra value beyond their expectations. When you provide exceptional service, they will come back. Always keep in mind that, “The Most Important Trip You Will Take, is Meeting People Halfway”, be willing to give and compromise.
Your Mindset In Business Success:
A positive mindset creates a productive attitude. If you go into a business venture with a negative defeatist attitude, you can expect to fail and lose your investment. Do not make excuses, make every effort to do your due diligence. Remember that, “Excuses are the Nails Used to Build a House of Failure”.
Keep and maintain a positive and productive attitude. Remain determined with a non faltering willpower and know that you will succeed. “If You Want to Make Your Dreams Come True, the First Thing You Have to Do is Wake Up & Work at Them.”
Create the future you want by learning how to release yourself from the past and identifying present day limiting beliefs. One of the most powerful tools available to you is the Secret Mirror. This system was created by Dr. Joe Vitale, star of the hit movie “The Secret”.
It’s a simple process of learning how to manage yourself and thus the ability to take immediate opportunistic action.
The Secret Mirror is a series of video interviews of one on one consultations between Dr. Joe and his students. You can see how he uses the mirror technique to unlock each individuals subconscious mind for answers.
Our subconscious is full of information. We need to learn how to access it. Keep in mind the saying, “Know that the Answer Lies Within”. It is inside of you. Click The Link Below To Access It.
The Secret Mirror
“The Best Way to Cheer Yourself Up is to Cheer Someone Else Up”
Mark Twain
When you feel down, one of the best ways to make yourself feel better is to try and cheer a friend or someone else up. By making another person happy, you can’t help, but feel good. Happiness is an emotion that needs to be shared. It increases in intensity as you involve more and more people. Although you feel down, remember the saying, “You Can’t Have A Rainbow Without a Little Rain”.
How do you cheer someone else up? You start with a welcoming smile and ask: How can I help? The next step is the most important and that is to listen! Just the act of listening to someone can help them. Through dialog and the flow of information you can offer different points of view. By just being there for them, in that moment, you cheer them up.
The key to cheering someone up is to act. Don’t intend to do something, go ahead and step up. Understand the meaning of the saying, “The Smallest Act of Kindness is Worth so Much More Than the Grandest Intention; Act Now”.
What comes from such a wonderful act of kindness? With more kindness, which strengthens your relationship and brightens everyone’s day, you are able to explore solutions and give reassurance that they do not have to face this alone.
When you do this, it creates a stronger bond of friendship. What a wonderful experience and the kindness grows!!!
Something happens inside of you; the feelings of good and accomplishment are generated. You have helped someone by being there for them.
Miraculously, you find yourself feeling good and like magic, you are cheered up. Always remember Dr. Maya Angelou’s saying, “People Forget What You Say, They Forget What You Do, but They Never Forget How You Make Them Feel”. You just made someone’s day!!!
“Become Someone’s Reason to Smile”
There is a self-improvement system that might help you with the acts of kindness and giving. It is created by Dr. Joe Vitale and it’s called the Secret Mirror.
The Secret Mirror is a series of video interviews of one on one consultations between Dr. Joe and his students. You can see how he uses the mirror technique to unlock each individuals subconscious mind for answers.
Our subconscious is full of information. We need to learn how to access it. Keep in mind the saying, “Know that the Answer Lies Within”. It’s inside of you.
The Secret Mirror
“Your Attitude Begins with Your Choice of Thoughts, Think Positive – Be Positive”
Your attitude, also known as the mind’s tendencies and orientation, is critical to your emotional stability, learning capability and decision making process. Your attitude is your choice, you can choose to be positive or negative, it’s up to you.
A negative attitude is created by the use of hard harsh words in your thoughts. Thinking negative thoughts will lead you to a hard harsh attitude and thus a hard  life. Your emotional state is one of anger and despair.
Negative thinking closes your mind to new ideas and thus limits your decision process to the same old options. You try the same thing and then get the same results. How do you change your results? By keeping in mind the saying, “When You Think Negative, Use Positive Reinterpretation to Adjust and Continue Forward”.
Re-think a negative thought with positive words, it will turn the thought positive and your attitude positive. A positive attitude leads to happiness; Positive Thinking therefore is the key. Know that “Life does not happen to you, it responds to you”.
A positive attitude is the result of using positive words in your thoughts. By thinking positive thoughts and having a positive attitude your life becomes both gratifying and satisfying. Your emotional state is one of open-minded curiosity. Learn to acknowledge and treasure life’s simple pleasures, for they add up to the majority of your life experiences.
You are willing to listen to others, accept advice and therefore make better decisions. Because of a positive attitude, people and the opportunities they bring, will seek you out.
Keep in mind, that the people you socialize with affects your attitude and who you are. Your life will be easier, healthier and much more fulfilling with a positive attitude.
Always remember you are responsible for what you do. Therefore always be you true self.
“Think Positive – Be Positive”
It’s really a simple process, don’t let a negative attitude get you down. Learn the process of managing yourself, situations and being in the moment. Be grateful for what you have and don’t fret over what you do not have; for this is a negative trap.
There is a self-improvement system created by Dr. Joe Vitale, called the Secret Mirror. It is a series of video interviews of one on one consultations between Dr. Joe and his students.
You can see how he uses the mirror technique to unlock each individuals subconscious mind for answers. Our subconscious is full of information. We need to learn how to access it. Keep in mind the saying, “Know that the Answer Lies Within”. It’s inside of you. Click this Link To Access It.
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The Beatles sing, “All You Need Is Love”. Have you ever thought about what those lyrics mean? What they mean is that you should not only receive all the love the world has to offer, but that you should also give love.
Some people do not understand the meaning or definition of love. Love is admiration, caring and respect. That means admiring without envy, showing concerns for others well-being and giving respect with no expectations in return.
To admire without envy is easily accomplished. You look at the accomplishments of a successful person with an inquisitive eye as to how did they succeed. What qualities, virtues and behaviors did they use to reach this position of admiration? Inquire, for you will want to emulate them. The one thing that you do not want, is to become jealous or envious of them. You’re tasked to rise to a position of admiration of your own.
Caring, the genuine concern for someones well-being, is foundational to love. When you care, you’ll go the extra mile or take the extra step to make things right for them. Because you care, you are there for them in their time of need. Through this act of love, their eyes are opened to their vulnerabilities. The seed of love is planted in their heart.
The element of respect is so important. When you give love, if you respect that person, it’s much easier to open your heart to them which can expose your own vulnerabilities. Respect grows into trust and you are able to love completely and unconditionally.
When you are able to love unconditionally, you free yourself from selfish desires and wants. You now avoid the pain of unfulfilled expectations. By loving unconditionally, you are actually Freeing Yourself.
Those who interact with you will be enhanced by your gift of love and you by their love. This is what the world needs most, Love!!! What is most important is Loving Yourself, this is key to your inner peace.
To quote the Beatles, “All You Need Is Love!!!”
Love can be so dynamic and confusing, especially in the beginning of a relationship. One of the most powerful tools available to you is the Secret Mirror. This system was created by Dr. Joe Vitale, star of the movie “The Secret”.
It’s really a simple process; learn the process of managing yourself and thus the emotions created in a relationship.
The Secret Mirror is a series of video interviews of one on one consultations between Dr. Joe and his students. You can see how he uses the mirror technique to unlock each individuals subconscious mind for answers.
Our subconscious is full of information. We need to learn how to access it. Keep in mind the saying, “Know that the Answer Lies Within”. It is inside of you. Click this Link To Access It.
The Secret Mirror
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The Power of Words
 Words Are So Powerful:
Words can motivate, encourage, move people to action and communicate teachings. Keep in mind the power of words to the young, for “When Speaking to a Child, Your Teachings Will Become The Inner Voice of Their Future”.
Words can also inflict pain, damage self image and bring forth negative emotions. It is your choice of words that directs and affects the listener. Remember that, “Your Tongue, Even Though It’s Soft , Is Strong Enough to Break a Heart”.
How Do Words Move People To Action:
Moving the audience to action, happens over and over in speeches. Coaches talking to players, motivational speakers to an audience and a salesmen to prospective buyers. The true power behind words lies in their meaning to the person who hears them. Far more than simple conversation, words have the power to manipulate a person’s thinking and thus their behavior. It is the audience’s interpretation of the meaning of what they hear, that causes their emotional reaction. A good speaker can read his audience’s response and then alter his delivery to guide them in the direction he wants.
There is real power in words, “The proper words delivered with emotion at the appropriate time” move people to action.
Communication is Crucial to Success:
Your ability to speak, the art of conversation, is a major characteristic by which others will judge you. The ability to deliver information and persuade opinion is essential from parenting, to relationships and in business. Once the listener believes your message, then you can deliver closing emotional words of action to direct them to take the response you desire. In other words, “close the deal”.
Use Words Selectively
“Be Careful with your Thoughts, They can become Words at any Moment.” It is important to choose your words carefully. Consider that words affect emotions in you and your listener. Keep these words positive and intriguing. The listener’s curiosity about your statements will move them to ask questions. This results in more engagement and opportunities for you to pursue. Getting the listener to ask questions, puts them in the conversation on a personal level. You can learn their needs and offer your solution to their concerns.
The Effect of Words on You and Yours:
Words have an undeniable affect on you. You are affected by conversations, speeches and most certainly through self talk. Self talk, the words that you choose to use in your thoughts, directly affect your beliefs and thus your actions.
The words you use during your self improvement sessions are selected for a specific reason. Give considerable consideration to the words you chose to use. Especially the words you choose to recite during your meditation and EFT Tapping sessions.
Remember to chose carefully your words in causal conversation with loved ones. A simple miss spoken word can act like a dagger and wound deeply. Words can also be used to show kindness. Keep in mind that, “There are 86,400 Seconds in a Day. Take a few seconds to express kindness by saying “Thank You”.
Use of Words:
Communication is used to persuade, inform, comfort and lead people to action. Your ability to generate an emotional response in the listener and move them to action is called the art of the sale. Choose your words carefully and use targeted phrases to grab their attention. Engage them with intriguing questions and get into their world. Find out what their needs are and offer valuable solutions. If their problem is one of emotional pain, comfort with kindness and words of encouragement.
Always, offer conversation that has value to your listeners. Remember, what you say and the way you say it, is what you will be judged by. Keep in mind that conversation also helps you to grow.
There is a resource that you should consider for improving yourself. It is the fabulous teachings of Dr. Joe Vitale and Dr. Hew Len in their program Zero Limits Maui. Take the time to look at this system and see if it is right for you. This system has helped me immensely.
“Zero Limits”
 Dr. Joe Vitale & Dr. Hew Len
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“Learn to Smile at Each Situation”, means keeping calm, positive and finding humor in a situation. It does not matter who made the mistake or if a situation has gone south; by looking at it in a positive light you become more open minded to solutions as they present themselves.
When a situation is not going the way you planned, learn to laugh at yourself and the situational stage you find yourself on.
 Find The Humor
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With humor, you turn the situation and yourself positive. You are more open- minded to ideas, clarifications and unfolding explanations from others. The solution will present itself and then you can implement it.
These situations are your opportunity to shine. That means to shine individually and as a team. Keep in mind the saying, “Don’t Look for a Friend to Solve Your Problems, Look for a Friend Who Will Face Them With You”. Listening to ideas of other people is very powerful and the right thing to do. It is the flow of information that solves problems.
How do you prove yourself?
- Find the humor in any situation
- Stay positive
- Generate an open minded curiosity
- Listen to others
- Be the catalyst for consensus
- Plan and implement
Keep in mind the saying, “Think BIG Thoughts, but Always Relish the Smallest of Pleasures; Enjoy Life”. Learn to laugh at yourself.
It’s really a simple process; don’t let situations get you down; learn the process of managing yourself and thus situations. There is a self-improvement system created by Dr. Joe Vitale, called the Secret Mirror, which teaches you how to become successful. If you believe that this system is right for you, follow this link to:
Dr. Joe Vitale’s video: The Secret Mirror
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You cannot change the past; you have already lived it. There is nothing that can be done to change it, therefore you must accept it, although you can change the way you think about it. Learn how your past can make you a Better person, not a Bitter person.
The first thing you must learn to do is forgive yourself and be truly you. This forgiveness is for you, to set yourself free from any negativeness from the past. It is the key to unlocking the perceived binds and limitations that the past holds. Keep in mind the saying, “Forgiveness Does Not Change the Past, but It Does Set You Free to Enlarge the Future”.
Secondly, don’t waste today’s energy worrying about your past and what others think, to do so simply takes away energy from this moment. If you do, you are unable to focus 100% of today’s time and energy into your present choices and decisions. By doing so, you decrease your future expectations and possibilities.
Thirdly, learn from your past experiences. Make yourself better by assimilating the knowledge gained from the past into your conscious awareness building your confidence. This enlightened awareness and confidence should be humbly used to guide you in making decisions. In other words, don’t make the same mistake twice. Understand that if you do make the same mistake twice, the second time actually was not a mistake, it was your choice.
The past has no holds on your future. You can mold the future into what you want. The power is within you through the decisions you make. The past should make you Better not Bitter. It’s up to you to learn from it and then forgive. Forgive for your own sake! Don’t forget the saying, “If Bad Things Happen, You Have 3 Choices, It can Define You, Destroy You or Strengthen You”. You should always strive to become stronger.
It’s really a simple process; don’t let your past get you down; learn the process of managing yourself and thus situations. There is a self-improvement system created by Dr. Joe Vitale, called the Secret Mirror, which is a series of video interviews of one on one consultations between Dr. Joe and his students.
You can see how he uses the mirror technique to unlock each individuals subconscious mind for answers. The subconscious mind is full of information. You need to learn how to access it. Keep in mind the saying, “Know that the Answer Lies Within”. It is inside of you. Click this Link for access.
Dr. Joe Vitale’s video: The Secret Mirror
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